Alcoholism Is A Family Disease.  We Became Para-Alcoholics And Took On The Characteristics Of That Disease Even Though We Did Not Pick Up The Drink.   

  When any member of a family is suffering with alcohol addiction, all who live in the household are affected and become ill.  In some families the desperation and emotional turmoil is ever-present, while in other homes the entire family may go to incredible lengths to put on a show of normalcy.

Regardless of the family posture, however, the disease of alcoholism affects everyone.  The children suffer stress in countless ways.  Eventually the overwhelming pressures in the alcoholic family lead to emotional disturbances, many of which have been described in this chapter.  Appearances aside, all of the children in an alcoholic household become wounded and most of them carry those unhealed wounds into adulthood, home and social environment.  No child escapes unscathed, though many are under the false impression that they have.  It is most sad that so many ACoAs truly feel that they survived their childhood with only minor scratches and bruises.

Para-alcoholism is the transmission of emotional aspects of the disease from parents to children.  Children who are exposed to the illness eventually take on many of the characteristics of the illness.  It’s a fact of life that many ACoAs resist before recovery.

Excerpt from Chapter 4 – The Recovery Process in The Laundry List by Tony A. and Dan F.

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